are you crazy? what are you amish? i mean, if someone was giving you your favorite flavor of ice cream, would you turn them down? if someone wants to clean your gutters, aren't you gonna let them? i only say this cause sex is just that! a nice, pleasureable thing shared between two people. why does marriage have to be involved? granted, marriage is a great thing and i respect people who say they'll wait, that just means more for me heee hee hee.